Here are some signs that your husband is cheating:

• They call you by another name.

• They mention getting hit on by someone, but say they turned them down flat.

• They have trouble looking you in the eyes and act in a guilty fashion.

• They are fast to argue and have mood swings.

• If you ask them whether or not they are cheating, they are very aggressive in response.

• They buy a new wardrobe.

• They wear new, or their favorite underwear all the time.

• They make themselves look handsome for no specific reason..

• They spend more time looking in the mirror.

• They start trimming and grooming their pubic hair, probably with your tools.

• They keep finding reasons to leave the house or suddenly have to go somewhere, and when they do they are gone longer than expected. 1 hour to go to the corner store?

• They make a habit of calling to tell you they will be home late because they need to spend more time at work. * Notice their checks don't reflect the overtime.

• They find new interests / hobbies that do not involve you..

• They disappear without explanation..

• They become unreachable at times.

• They take long lunches or dinners.

• You ask if you can meet them at work, they rebuff the suggestion. Remember most affairs start at work.

• A new woman you've never heard of starts calling.

• They hang up the phone when you get too close, and keep the phone calls very short.

• There are new mysterious phone numbers on the cell phone or phone bill.

• They move phone and /or credit card billing over to paperless so only they have access to the statements.

• There are unrecognized incoming, outgoing or missed calls on their phone.

• They do not answer their phone when they see you calling.

• They turn off their cell phone when they are out after work hours.

• They are changing their eating habits and experimenting with new foods.

• Their routine habits begin to change.

• They want to go out with your girlfriends more often.

• They all seem to be showered, but you never see them showering.

• Their gas consumption seems to be going up. They are filling up more often. The mileage on the odometer doesn't make sense.

• They clean out the car before you get in it.

• There are two empty cups or food containers in the car.

• Money starts going un-unaccounted for.

• You start finding receipts for items you don't have or for pharmacy / lodging.

• There are unexplainable charges on the credit card statements.

• They lose interest in having sex with you OR they want to try new positions / exhibit new sexual behaviour..

• They start feeling guilty about cheating on you and sex becomes much less intimate.

• Sex happens very quickly.

• They don't touch or kiss you as much, eg: a kiss on the forehead before leaving to work.

• They start sleeping on the couch instead of in bed.

• They don't say 'I love you' any more.